A bride in Guangdong brings gold jewelry at the wedding site. When will such "vulgar" be improved?

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  1. Recently, a wedding scene in Foshan, Guangdong was hot. In the video, the bride wore more than a hundred gold bracelets on the neck of Chinese dresses. The glitter of golden light made many people shout "the rise!" However, as the video continues to spread, some netizens think that this is actually a kind of "vulgar" that should be resisted. In fact, I have different views. In fact, this approach is just a local traditional custom. Everyone really does not need to go online.
    I, the "most bride in history" incident at the beginning and end of December 13, 2020, a video of a new couple in Foshan, Guangdong became popular online. The content of the video is actually quite simple. It is mainly to record the entire situation of the newcomer's wedding scene. The biggest highlight comes from the bride. I saw that she was full of gold bracelets in Chinese dresses. Too many people could only hang around the neck with a rope. It is estimated that there are at least 100 rough couples, which is definitely a "big scene" that many netizens have never seen before.
    It from the video, the groom bride still took the red envelope handed by relatives and friends from time to time, and the whole scene was happy. It may be because the weight of the gold bracelet is indeed too heavy. It feels that the bride is tired and the face is rigid, and the expression is slightly rigid. When the wedding entered the end, the bride took off the gold bracelet around her neck and kept a small part of it, which made her relieved. Otherwise, the bride's neck may not be carried before the wedding may be completed.
    It no wonder many netizens said that they still felt that their wedding was pretty good. When I saw this bride, I knew that poverty limited his vision.

    . Hanging gold bracelets are actually a local custom. Because this video pays attention on the Internet, it has caused warm discussions among many netizens. Why should the bride wear so many gold bracelets on their neck on the day of marriage? This actually has a lot to do with the local customs and habits.
    In that many friends do not know that there is no habit of receiving a lot of gifts during the marriage process in Guangdong. Generally speaking, there are at most to receive about one or two hundred from relatives and friends, and this money may be at the end of the wedding banquet. After returning directly to relatives and friends. So how to reflect the blessings of relatives and friends to newcomers? Therefore, the habit of sending gold jewelry is derived from Guangdong, which means that the bride needs to wear the gold jewelry sent by relatives and friends on the day of marriage, which means that the relatives and friends will be hung on their blessings.
    If more gold jewelry sent by relatives and friends, then you need to wear all the gold jewelry through rope, which is also a respect for relatives and friends. Of course, if some family members and friends are not rich in family and friends, then there are no problems without giving gold jewelry. Even if there are not many gold jewelry on the bride on the wedding day, no one will laughed at her.
    I as for the situation in the video, this kind of bride wears hundreds of gold jewelry is rare. We can understand that the relatives and friends of the newcomers in the video are more rich in jewelry. In order to let relatives and friends We know that the new people do have received their blessings, and the bride can only make this amazing move to hang more than a hundred jewelry on themselves.
    Thenit aside the number of jewelry. This is actually an ordinary wedding, but because there are too many gold jewelry, it has caused a sensation on the Internet.
    three, say "showing wealth" or "vulgarity", there is no reason to make many people say that this pair of newcomers is actually "showing off the wealth", and some people even say that this vulgar should be resisted. This is me in me. It seems that there is no reason at all.
    Let's talk about the problem of showing off wealth first. First of all, we need to notice that the video content is a wedding scene. In fact, all relatives and friends are actually relatives and friends. This scene is actually very private. If it wasn't for a good person to send this video to the Internet, we would definitely not know that there were such couples of the new couples who had a wedding, and did they publicize the wealthy wealth to show up with the outside world? So the saying of showing off wealth really can't stand.
    The "vulgarity" I personally feel that "can't eat grapes to say grape acid". After all, giving away gold jewelry is actually a local custom habit, and it has also been widely recognized by locals. Since the relatives and friends of the new people have financial resources to give gold and silver jewelry, it has not hindered other people and has no adverse effects, then the "vulgar" statement naturally cannot be said.
    . The wedding and silver jewelry since ancient times have become the established customs to get married. It is a major event in life. Since ancient times, in the traditional Chinese wedding, the sending gold and silver jewelry in the process of sending the marriage is expensive In ancient times, there were customs to give away three gold before marriage.
    Nowadays, the custom habits of Guangdong are red envelopes of the New Year. The New Year in Guangdong generally only send 5 yuan and 10 yuan small red envelopes for children, and the biggest will not be over 100. This is actually a way for Cantonese to express their minds. It is not important to have more money and less money. In many other places, it is not a good thing for children. This is not a good thing for children. It is not only easy to cause pocket money to waste money.
    In general, I think this matter is completely unnecessary to go online. Everyone does not have to look at this matter with colored glasses. Although this wedding scene is indeed a bit luxurious, this is not a common phenomenon. I believe that with the development of the Cantonese wedding scenes of the times, it will become more and more simple. After all, it is more important than the blessings of loved ones.
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  2. There are different cultures in different regions. Intersection The Indians had a bunch of gold jewelry all day long. Why not say that it was vulgar, this is actually just a different manifestation of cultural customs.
    Mele -daughter in Guangdong is different from other provinces. Many people think that marrying a daughter is not a daughter. The gifts they want are generally just meanings. In my country's colorful ceremony, Guangdong is counted from behind. For such a simple Cantonese, how can we say that wearing gold wares is vulgar. Compared to the disgusting customs, the bride full of golden wares can be regarded as a blessing of relatives and friends to her.
    1. I do n’t know if you do n’t accept the gift, but you do n’t collect gifts when you get married in Foshan, and you will not record who has received it as much as who has received a lot of gifts. polite. The older generation will think that I marry a daughter or son and a daughter -in -law, ask you to come to dinner, why do you still need to collect your money? Do you still ask for money?
    2, since human relationship does not receive gifts, but as relatives, you must always express it. There are thousands of pieces of red envelopes, and they must not be collected. They only receive that two hundred, and the rest are basically returned to the red envelope. In this way, a relative, his brothers and sisters, nephew nephews, and the like, and how can one or two hundred be able to live one hundred or two, so the custom of giving a gold provider has been derived. There is no force or comparison in this custom. Rich people send gold bracelets. If there is no money, a small gold ring. If there is no money, no money will not be complained. This is what you want to do. As ordinary friends and colleagues, there will be no such valuable gifts. Many people who have come to Guangdong to drink happy wine have such experience. Take out the red envelopes to the newcomers. They always have to push it. In the end, the red envelope is still in their own hands without being collected.
    3. It is not a vulgar or blessing to send gold. The habit of giving a long history has a long history. At first, it was only the mother -in -law who gave the daughter -in -law or mother a pair of dragon and phoenix bracelets that the daughter -in -law or mother gave it to the gold wares sent by relatives. One day of marriage, wearing all the gold wares on the body is the respect of the gold sender, and we also wear the blessings of others on the body.
    Therefore, this custom will not be improved in one day as long as there is a wedding tradition in a day. Unless you do n’t put a banquet, you do n’t ask someone to drink a happy wine, and you will be married quietly. Essence

  3. A bride in Guangdong brings gold jewelry at the wedding site. Such a "vulgarity" still needs to be improved, and this social atmosphere will change; some people say that such a wedding is suspected of showing off wealth. After all, not all the grooms have the ability to provide such Morally expensive jewelry, if such folk customs are not abolished, it may exacerbate the bad atmosphere of "money first", then there may be many tragedies caused by there.

  4. Guangzhou is actually not much vulgar:
    The is low in color, just 20,000 to 30,000.
    The wedding wine red envelope is small, and he will return a few hundred (maybe half, or even fold a corner to your home).
    Then the New Year is less. Friends are ten yuan and twenty yuan. Blood relatives are only 100 or more. In such a grounded city. Just get married, bring the gold wares sent by relatives for one night, and who stimulates it?

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